Friday, May 1, 2009

It's me, not you...

I'm listening to "Pretty Wings" by Maxwell (which I love, love, love and I have it on repeat as I write) and I was wondering when do you decide to let go?

I've been in relationships where the guy wasn't ready for me and all that I had to offer. Of course, initially, I thought it was me, but then I realized that it was really them and their inability to be the person I NEEDED them to be for me.

The last relationship I was in, he realized that he couldn't do long distance...but I'm so sure you had to know that BEFORE you got involved...and then you decide to let go AFTER feelings got deep? What's that about?!

So when do you realize you have to give "It's me, not you, you did nothing wrong" speech?

1 comment:

  1. As soon as you are feeling some sort of way towards the person you gotta let it go. Its gonna be painful either way, but you just gotta fess up and do it instead of waiting, because it will make things worse.

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