Who should make the first move?

It's the WEEKEND!!! YAY! It's been a beautiful weekend so far in Milwaukee and as much as I wanted to spend the night in doing school work, I decided to step out with my girl...

Speaking of stepping out...so last weekend, me and my girl went out and we were kinda on the prowl, emphasis on kinda, lol. We were trying to go to different places and check out the scenery - cute men, beautiful people, etc. Let's just say it didn't go as planned, but we did have some practice in approaching men (her, not me, I was playing shy that night...not enough to drink, lol). So it got me to thinking, do men actually like to be approached? What we found was that any potential new interest was on the phone texting (which led us to believe they were texting a woman) so we would dismiss trying to talk to that guy. But when we DID approach and expressed interest and left it up to the man to then make a move...NOTHING! Now is it that it was too aggressive (or of course, they just weren't interested, but I'm dismissing that for now lol)? Do men like to be in control and make the first move? I always thought some men were afraid of rejection and rather than get rejected, they post up against the wall and stare, rather than approaching. And I also thought that when a woman did approach, it would make it that much easier. Not that particular Saturday! And to add insult to injury...the only men who did approach us were strippers, lol!

So, should women approach men or should we just let the men come to us?

-Ms. QTO