So...yesterday, me, my girl and her friend decided to go out since it was such a BEAUTIFUL day in Milwaukee. It wasn't a beautiful night, however, as it was rainy and drizzly out! I'm sooo happy I wore my hair wet and wavy!
So for whatever reason, I was really feeling it last night! It might've been the atmosphere and all the beautiful people at the spot that we went to, but I was just walking around, checking out the scenery and then I saw them...some fine, black men just chilling, talking amongst themselves. I really wanted to have a re-do from the previous weekend when we struck out (see Who should make the first move?), so I told my girl I was going to get a drink and make my way over to them. I chickened out....at first. The more I looked over and I sipped on my appletini, the more I was like, F it, I have nothing to lose. I went up to them, said something witty, and it was on from that point. We hung out with them for the whole night...a few of their other friends came in and we chatted them up as well. Needless to say, I walked out with two numbers (which I will call guy #1 and guy #2 from now on, lol) from some very fine men...
So guy #2 and I are conversing via text today (yes, just a few hours later) and he wanted to hang out tonight and put it out there that if I would feel more comfortable inviting my girl, he would invite his friend that was there last night and that would help break the ice. Hence the title of this blog and the fact that I'm not worried about no ice! Lol. We are grown...I think that we should be able to chat and not have it be a group date....
Anyways....it's only a few hours later and I have a date lined up and it made me think of what some guys have asked me...when is it too soon to contact a woman? Is the next day too soon? A few hours later via text saying good morning, just to gauge interest? Women, what do you think? Personally, I like when a guy shows interest, but what I DON'T like is when they call three or four times a day!!
-Ms. QTO
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You got it in the bag. And with this particular case, he might concsiously be trying to seal the deal before his boy does. Ya know! So I think its great when the dude contacts you within 3 days. Now if they are bugging everyday, that ish is not cool. Cuz that is really eager beaver style. We all like the chase so finding a balance between the two is perfect.
ReplyDeleteSo I had an interesting conversation with my brother yesterday and his girlfriend said that you should make a man wait for it...so even if a guy you met does express interest, you should let him chase you. I can see that, but at the same time, it's 2009. I don't even think some of those dating rules exist anymore, do they? Speaking of...check out the lastest blog about first dates. ...
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