So I think I’m starting to get frustrated with the opposite sex. I promise you, I’m not one of those women that sit at home and complain about not having a man, because I am actually pretty busy. Between work and graduate school, hanging out with friends, and working out, I don’t have much time for much else. But what about those Friday nights when I just want to hang out and watch a movie with a special someone…nothing too crazy, just spending some quality time?
More and more it seems as if there are no more good men left! My girlfriend and I were discussing this Saturday night, as we were out and about in the city. We discussed the many places where one could go to meet members of the opposite sex - church, the supermarket, Barnes and Noble...nope, no men. This is NOT like the movies, it doesn't happen like that for us! Lol. And I KNOW they say it will happen when you least expect it, but I’m still waiting. I hope I don’t end up 40, single, and a cougar preying on young men, because at this rate, that’s where I’m headed!
So.....where are all the good men? To the men, do you have issues finding good women? And if you have a good man/woman, where did you meet?
-Ms. QTO
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Queenie, im a good man and you are surrounded by good men.
ReplyDeletePlus this is Milwaukee, most people worth while have already been snatched up.
Hmm...I think that both sexes are looking in the same places as everyone else and the pickings are slim...I'll just go ahead and say it...I think both sexes are limiting their choices by only staying within their own race. And I know I may catch some flack for saying that but its a true statement...I know people like what they like, but how can you find love if you have your mind on a straight and narrow path excluding some potential mates because of race, creed or ethnicity. Love, passion, companionship doesn't have a color...Just some food for thought!!!
ReplyDeleteI agree that we do limit ourselves. I am good for that and I have been working on opening my horizons.
ReplyDeleteBut at the same time why should I not seek my number once choice; beautiful strong black men that got their lives put together. A brother like that scores a 10 in my book. We all deserve the best, and deserve what we want. I dont want to settle.
At the same time, since I refuse to settle Im finding a whole lot of nothin' in MKE. But just as we are seeking that special someone, there are many others out there doing the same. We just gotta find them or hope that we cross paths randomly. I refuse to be a 40year old cougar or an Old Settler, so hunny we are gonna be getting to work while I am still around.
I agree that there are good men out there, but for the most part all of the FINE good men are in relationships or have no desire to commit, and I don't want to be a home wrecker. Most of the good men that are available are not attractive. I am far from shallow, but a woman can't make herself want a man, just like I can't make every man want me.
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